Is it wrong to date your musical partner?
 

Is it wrong to date your musical partner?

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Is it wrong to date your musical partner?    20:43 on Monday, August 21, 2006 Vote for this post Vote against this post 0 votes

choc_powder
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hey..well you see...in my school orchestra i'm the 2nd oboist..and the 1st oboist is a guy...well..he asked me out about 2 weeks ago..and now he cant get over me..he keeps staring at me during rehearsals..giving me all the solo parts...and sometimes not playing just to look at me...

our conductor is scolding him for not paying attention, not playing etc.

he's a realy good oboe player...but one day he said to me "I dont need my oboe if i have you..."

now the school orchestra is a wreck without him i keep playing wrong notes etc. my friends think i should stop dating him...but..i..dont know what to do!! he's so..cute >.< what shud i dO???


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Re: Is it wrong to date your musical partner?    01:52 on Tuesday, August 22, 2006 Vote for this post Vote against this post 0 votes

sexi_oboe_boi
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what a lame topic..

useless point.

jasper.x

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Re: Is it wrong to date your musical partner?    09:47 on Tuesday, August 22, 2006 Vote for this post Vote against this post 0 votes

choc_powder
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>.<

but... maybe he's right...no one will help me newayz... =.= any1 know any psychic reader websites...

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Re: Is it wrong to date your musical partner?    16:49 on Friday, August 25, 2006 Vote for this post Vote against this post 0 votes

oboescanjazztoo
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Well, if you are dating him, use that "power" to your advantage. If he stops playing to look at you, tell him to pay attention and start playing or you'll be angry with him. It's not wrong to date someone in your section (though I've never done it...I instead am dating a tuba player...hmm...2nd highest in the score to 2nd lowest in the score...interesting) as long as it doesn't effect the band. At this point, if he's this obsessed with you, it would be worse (I think) to break up with him than to keep dating him.

And Mr. Oboe Boi...you are a rude, arrogant person. Just because her question doesn't have to do with oboe technique or the instrument itself doesn't mean it isn't important.

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Re: Is it wrong to date your musical partner?    17:44 on Friday, August 25, 2006 Vote for this post Vote against this post 0 votes

Dod
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"I dont need my oboe if i have you..."

Haha.

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Re: Is it wrong to date your musical partner?    21:41 on Saturday, August 26, 2006 Vote for this post Vote against this post 0 votes

StephenK
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It's not wrong to date your musical partner, but you may want to let him know that his playing is something that attracted you to him... and he's losing that attraction.

At least you're dating a musician, play duets... you'll both get better, together.




   

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